4 Tips to Enhance Intimacy

Have you and your partner been looking for practical ways to strengthen the power your of your relationship. Do you want to go beyond a strong sexual relationship? Do you wish to enhance your intimacy?

Here are 4 tips for enhancing your Sexual Intimacy and Relationship Strength:

1. Find Balance: Finding the balance between relationship, family, work, friends, and personal time may be a challenge. However, where your relationship is concerned, it is an endeavor that is well worth the energy invested to allow it to happen. Healthy relationships require your active presence. Being present in your relationship takes you to make plans, you to provide attention and you to follow through. So, get out your schedule and begin to create balanced time for those elements of importance — be sure to include time for talking, time for sexual pleasuring, time for dating, time for romance and time for sexual satisfaction.

2. Strive for Similar Values: As a couple, you do not have to agree on everything. Such variety can add spice to your partnership! However, having similar values — such as, the importance of spirituality, of friends and other social-support systems, of sexuality and sexual expression, of community volunteerism/giving, of honesty, of hard work, of fidelity, of investing/spending — can add significantly to the accord in your relationship. If you and your partner are at odds on core values, begin to communicate about them. Pay attention to what you do share in common and to what originally attracted you to each other. See where you already have a meeting of the minds. Then, investigate options for compromise.

3. Disagree Agreeably: If you find yourself and your partner on different sides of a decision, do your best to engage in honest listening. What is honest listening, you might ask? Honest listening is sincerely trying to hear your partner’s point of view. It’s listening without thinking up additional arguments. It is being open to differences. It is sincerely caring what your partner is feeling and thinking. If both of you feel strongly, consider agreeing to disagree. Better yet — continue to discuss and learn from one another until you create a new solution that is win-win for you both!

4. Celebrate Your Love: Be sure to include intimacy in your relationship. Sex is important in a loving relationship. It is the glue that holds the partnership together in joy and provides it with support in times of discouragement. In addition, the physical act of sex becomes even more powerful when it unites your emotions and mind and spirit with those of your beloved. Uniting in these ways requires that you each offer a 24-7 attitude of support and agreeableness to one anther. It requires being kind, attentive and loving to one another throughout the day.

I urge you to use these ideas over and over to enhance your sexual intimacy and strengthen your relationship.